Mr. and Mrs. John L Cook Celebrate 50th Wedding Anniversary(1959)

John Lemuel & Malissa A Barnes Cook

Mr. and Mrs. John L Cook
Celebrate Wedding Anniversary

Mr and Mrs. John L Cook,
who were celebrating their 50th
wedding anniversary Sunday,
enjoyed a buffet luncheon at
their home in Chapel Hill. The
dining table was covered with
a lace cloth and featured an
arrangement of yellow gladioli.
A crystal punch bowl was used
on the buffet.
A lovely display of gifts was
presented the honored couple.
Among those attending were
their two children, J.W. Cook
and Mrs. Charles F Rogers,
both of Chapel Hill; five of their
six grandchildren, Johnny Cook,
Max Cook, Mrs Dean Tipton
and Larry Hargrove of Chapel
Hill, and Mrs. Bobby Dean Mc-
Peak of Lewisburg, and Mr.
and Mrs. H. K. Rowland of
Rockvale, and Mrs Flemons
Haynes of Shelbyville, who were
present at their wedding 50
years ago.

Notes:  Mr & Mrs H. K Rowland is John's sister, Eliza A Cook Rowland, and her husband.

Mrs. Flemons Haynes is Mary Catherine Ghee, maternal half-sister of Malissa Barnes Cook.  

They were the daughters of Cordelia Alice Barnes. Malissa was sometimes listed as a Ghee under the surname of her stepfather.  See the blog post link below for a more detailed explanation.

https://mariegen.blogspot.com/2022/07/malissa-wife-of-john-lemuel-cook.html

John Lemuel Cook is the only one of William Green Cook's children who knew his paternal grandfather, W. C. Cook.

Source:
"Mr. and Mrs. John L Cook Celebrate Wedding Anniversary," The Marshall Gazette(Lewisburg, TN), Vol. LXXXVII, No. 31,  31st July 1959, p. 5 col. 1;  FamilySearch  (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QHK-93RS-3PBX : accessed 14 February 2025) IGN , Image 337 of 546.

Malissa, wife of John Lemuel Cook

 I'd always known my Great Uncle John Lemuel Cook's wife as Malissa Ghee.  Sometimes the spelling of her name(both given and surname) varied but that is not uncommon.  John and Malissa's marriage record had not been located and I'd estimated their marriage to have occurred around 1909.  This was about the same time that the William G Cook family group picture was taken.  A search of the Rutherford Co TN marriage records showed a marriage bond¹ for a J L Cook & M A Barnes but with only initials for the couple more evidence was needed before I could form a hypothesis that these were the same people since the last name in this record wasn't the expected Gee/Ghee. My next step was to look in the 1900 Census for Ghee/Gee families in the area of Bedford, Rutherford, Marshall and Williamson Co TN.  I found a number of families but none with a Melissa or Malissa of the right age. There was one couple, Lee R Gee & wife Delia² who had a daughter listed as Lissa Gee. Lissa's age was close enough that I went looking for that couple's marriage record noting that their census entry listed "Number of Years Married" as 14.  That would mean their marriage occurred in 1886--that's two years before Mary C Gee(listed as their youngest daughter) was born and means they were not married when Lissa was born. This opens up the possibility that Delia's husband is not Lissa's father.  I found a marriage record in the Rutherford County Tennessee records for 1886 between a Robert L Gee and a C A Barnes³. Barnes...that was the name of the lady that married J L  Cook. It could be a coincidence so I checked  the marriage bond and the marriage return entry⁴ for the J L Cook and M A Barnes again and the entry directly beneath it caught my eye.  It was for an I F Haynes and a M C Ghee.  Could that M C Ghee be Mary the youngest daughter of Lee and Delia and sister of Malissa? A search for Delia Ghee's death certificate⁵ reveals that her full name was Cordelia Alice Barnes Ghee and the informant on her death certificate is none other than J. L. Cook. I believe I have enough evidence to state with great certainty that Malissa Ghee, wife of John Lemuel Cook was Malissa A Barnes, daughter of Cordelia Alice Barnes(wife of Robert Lee Ghee). At this time, I do not have evidence which would identify Malissa's father.   

Sources:  

1. "Tennessee, County Marriages, 1790-1950," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-893F-QK4Z?cc=1619127&wc=Q63S-13Z%3A1589264531%2C1589374153 : 22 December 2016), Rutherford > Marriage bonds, 1902-1908, vol 1-3 > image 742 of 779; citing Tennessee State Library and Archives, Nashville and county clerk offices from various counties.
2. "United States Census, 1900", database with images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:2:1BB2-31T : 9 March 2022), Household of Lee R Ghee, 1900.
3. "Tennessee, County Marriages, 1790-1950," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-893F-M3YB?cc=1619127&wc=Q63S-1MW%3A1589264531%2C1589374066 : 22 December 2016), Rutherford > Marriage records, 1881-1907, vol. 1-2 > image 207 of 648; citing Tennessee State Library and Archives, Nashville and county clerk offices from various counties.
4. "Tennessee, County Marriages, 1790-1950," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9VH-TZMN?cc=1619127&wc=Q633-MS6%3A1589264531%2C1589372439 : 15 December 2015), Rutherford > Marriage records, 1907-1920, vol 3-6 > image 43 of 453; citing Tennessee State Library and Archives, Nashville and county clerk offices from various counties.
5. "Tennessee Deaths, 1914-1966," database with images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:2:M1WL-M53 : 1 March 2021), Entry for Cordelia Alice Ghee, 1 Nov 1930; Death, Shelbyville, Bedford, Tennessee, United States, Tennessee State Library and Archives, Nashville.